When we have a problem, we start out looking at symptoms. We focus on the things that are wrong in our lives and try to fix those—as we should. But just like the critters in the “Whack-a-Mole” arcade game, no…
Forgotten Parts Heal Broken Hearts
Tag Archive for emotional healing
Inconsequential Coincidence or Profound Message?
While I was in Colorado, my daughter gave me a Netflix subscription. I watched a couple of movies that were okay, but then I discovered there were 80 episodes of the original Star Trek TV series available. Well, woo hoo…
Which came first? The end or the beginning?
“The end is only a door that you’ve already walked through.” – from White Horse by Tanya Buck In some ways, it’s a chicken-egg thing. Which comes first–the end or the beginning? Did I have to clear the past in order…
A Meltdown I Didn’t See Coming
As I was scurrying around getting things ready to go for my trip to Denver, thoughts and images from my old life kept popping up—and so did emotions. Well, I didn’t have time for that, not to mention that breaking…
Are You Stuck in Your Story?
Six Great Ways to Stay Stuck in Your Story! As we talked about in the last article, Just Make It STOP, when we’re in pain, all we want is to feel better. However, that doesn’t automatically mean we want to…
Just Make It STOP!
When something causes us pain the only thing we want is to make it stop. We want something to make the bad feelings go away and we’ll use whatever works to make that happen. It’s just how we’re wired and…
You can’t say that! What will they think?
As I was updating my website today, I noticed myself struggling. The words just wouldn’t come. Well, actually they did come, but my mind quickly rejected them. “You can’t say that! What will people think? You just write what people…
What’s happend to me? It’s “dramagical”!
What’s happened to me? That’s a good question. It’s been almost two months since I’ve written a blog post and I am a ghost of my former self on Facebook, Twitter and Linkedin. And have you seen my hair? Looking…
They shouldn’t have grown…
I woke up this morning with a vivid image of being in a lush vegetable garden. Two men were showing me around and pointing out the different kinds and types of greenery when I noticed two smaller plants off to…
Love or Fear? by Steve Nash
This week’s article is from my friend and colleague across the pond, Steve Nash. I’ve written answers to relationship questions from his selfhelpcollective.com site and now he’s graciously agreed to write a thought-provoking article for me here about…LOVE. Enjoy! *…
It’s Only Stupid If…
The other day, I was having lunch with my friend and colleague C. W. Miller, and I was telling him about one of my goals and the steps I was about to take toward it. The whole thing sounded pretty…
Relationship Review–What You Really Want or Just What You Have?
The New Year’s Relationship Review Are your relationships the kind you really want or just the ones you have? It’s a great question, and the answer may not be as simple as you think. In fact, just thinking about the…
Traditions & Routines
We just finished the personal transformation weekend workshop for women here in Florida—yes, it was totally amazing and the changes experiences were truly miraculous! Intense stuff all the way around, including a total body detox, reboot and rejuvenate food program.…
Expect a Miracle
When I first arrived here in Destin, Florida, I picked up a brochure for a dolphin cruise down at the harbor and my eyes went directly to these words: “Expect a Miracle.” Hmmm. That word had been popping up a…
5 Reasons Stupid People Annoy You
If you find yourself constantly surrounded by stupid people and perpetually peeved, here are five possible reasons to consider, along with some self-help tips to jump start your own personal transformation out of it. * * * * * Do…